Statement of Commitment

Dear Human,

I want you to know that I care for your well-being. You matter to me. Your life is valuable. I’m committed to diversity, inclusion, equity, and belonging. I sincerely welcome people who represent the rich tapestry of diverse identities and life experiences. I’m anti-racist, anti-ableist, plural/DID affirming, neurodivergent affirming, trans & queer affirming, Fat affirming and … I think you get the point.

I don’t tolerate hateful rhetoric, bigotry, or any form of oppression. I don’t relate to those who find purpose and meaning in stealing another’s bodily autonomy. I reject the white supremacist misrepresentation of history I learned in school. I find wealth hoarding to be very immoral and in 2025 “America” the gap between the white elite rich and the rest of us is growing wider.

I value human life and connection. The more diverse we are, the more grounded our collective humanity is.

I feel compelled to act alongside you in protest and step up on your behalf in my allyship with you. I value breaking down barriers, stirring the pot, and promoting access for all. I’ll help in removing obstacles to human thriving that create conditions of survival.

I’m committed to leaning into my discomfort and embracing my lack of knowledge as I evolve away from previous versions of myself. I’ll continue letting go of certain family customs, cultural traditions, and divesting from things I enjoy when at another’s expense and exploitation.

And not look back. It doesn’t look the same.

With cultural humility and genuine curiosity, my goal is to hold a therapeutic space that centralizes your voice. I hope you feel seen and listened to by me. You can tell me when I misunderstand, use harmful words, or miss the deeper implications of statements either of us make. I’ll listen with respect, non-defensiveness, and put my ego to the side.

If you revisit this living document, I hope you will notice an evolved version. Feel free to reach out if you have feedback. I value your thoughts and feelings: drstanleypsyd@outlook.com

“Who controls the past controls the future. Who controls the present controls the past.”

Orwell, 1984